As mothers, we're often told that our children give us their worst behavior because they feel safest with us. Largely, that is true. Our kids should feel the most safe when they are with their parents. It's one of the greatest responsibilities we have to them. The world, while fun and exciting, can be a … Continue reading On being (and having) a safe space…
Parenting
On transient motherhood…
I'm what some people would call a "millenial mom". Not because of my age (god, no. I'm much too old to be a true Millenial), but because of the age of my children. Many of my daughters' friends have parents that are ten or more years younger than me, which means many of my own … Continue reading On transient motherhood…
On wanting what I have….
Yesterday was Mother's Day. I wanted to write yesterday, but never got around to it. My family took me for a long brunch after church (where the mimosa tureen never got refilled and, for that, I will never forgive the staff) then we came home and I nursed my youngest down for a nap before … Continue reading On wanting what I have….
On remembering the “me” I forgot….
Around this time of year, I always spend a pretty decent amount of time thinking about how I'd like the new year to go for me. I'm a fan of resolutions. It helps me think about ways my life could be better or how I could better myself. This year is no exception. I'm taking … Continue reading On remembering the “me” I forgot….
On being miraculously average…
I'm old. Let's get that straight right out of the gate. I'm old...on paper, at least. I turned 37 this year and shortly before my birthday, I gave birth to my second (and last) baby. When I think about the fact that I'm never going to be pregnant again, I get a bit wistful. … Continue reading On being miraculously average…
On proving myself…
As a mother, I do a LOT in one day. Sadly, there's often little to show for it. Every time I get one mess under control, another has appeared. As soon as the dishwasher is unloaded, it needs to get loaded again. One load of laundry goes in the dryer and two more suddenly need … Continue reading On proving myself…
On knowing who I am.
It's been a hell of a few months for me. Since March of this year, I have experienced the most stress of my entire life. I gave birth to our second baby, moved to Colorado, rehomed my dogs, then moved to Japan, lived in a hotel for a few weeks, moved into a … Continue reading On knowing who I am.
On processing the pain…
"Mothers cannot give from a depleted source. Every mother needs emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual validation, nourishment, and support. When a mother is respected and well cared for, she and her whole family will benefit." ~ a motherwoman principle. I am nearly eight weeks into raising my second daughter. Which means I am nearly eight … Continue reading On processing the pain…
On lessons in retrograde…
The birth of our second daughter is looming large (as am I...holy crap, I feel GIGANTIC). Our first was born at 38 weeks and 3 days...that would be tomorrow if this one decides to make the same appearance. I spent a lot of time during my first pregnancy thinking and writing about all the … Continue reading On lessons in retrograde…
On breathing the good stuff…
I feel like there's this modern mom thing where we bitch incessantly about our children and our lives...especially those of us that are stay-at-home moms. It's weird. It feels really freeing sometimes. I love that I have a huge network of friends that I can commiserate with on this motherhood journey. It's nice to know … Continue reading On breathing the good stuff…
Use. The. Clutch. 